You waited until March to call your tax person…

and now you’re shocked you owe money?

Morgan said it perfectly:
“If you’re handing over a box of receipts and hoping for the best, you’re not planning…you’re reporting.”

Tax planning isn’t something you do after the year ends.

It’s something you do right now.

This is when the smartest business owners sit down and ask:
What pivots can I make before December 31st to minimize what I owe?

That’s how you build wealth.

Kristina broke it all the way down.

If you’re spinning your wheels, wondering how often to post, when to post, or where to even begin… stop.

She shared exactly what works:

✅ Start with 3 posts a week

✅ Stick to midday — 12pm is the magic hour (for most)

✅ And above all: stay consistent.

This is straight from a strategist who’s seen what actually moves the needle.

They say you’re here for wealth knowledge.

I say you’re here because you’re tired of the B$.
This is the reset.

No more surface-level convos. No more vague advice. I’ve built the No BS Collective.. a crew of vetted professionals I personally trust. Financial planners. Tax pros. Therapists. Attorneys. Brand ops. All killers, no fillers.

Each episode? 30 to 45 minutes of raw truth. What the media’s saying. What we actually do. And what the hell you should be doing right now to build real wealth.

This isn’t fluff.
Welcome to the reset.

There’s a big difference between a term loan and flexible capital, and Sara broke it down clearly. A term loan is a lump sum. You get the money once, it’s split into fixed payments over a set period, and when it’s paid off, it’s done. You don’t get to reuse it.

For some people, that structure makes sense. Especially if you’re restructuring debt or paying off high interest credit cards and want predictable payments. But the tradeoff is speed and flexibility. Term loans usually take longer to get and require more documentation than a line of credit.

This isn’t good or bad. It’s just about knowing what tool you’re picking and why.

If you want help choosing the right type of capital, reach out.

One thing Ashley pointed out that hits hard is how many couples argue, move on, and never actually come back to resolve anything. The fight ends, life continues, and everyone pretends it’s fine.

But unresolved conversations don’t disappear. They stack. They turn into resentment. And then months or years later, you’re fighting about something small when the real issue has been sitting there untouched the whole time.

Ashley’s point was simple. Resolution doesn’t happen just because time passes. It happens when someone is willing to come back, talk it through, and actually close the loop.

If this feels familiar, reach out.

Morgan explained how problems often start after a move. Communication breaks down when contact information isn’t updated, and systems keep moving without you.

Missed notices lead to delayed responses and unnecessary escalation. This isn’t about complexity. It’s about ownership. Updating your information everywhere it matters is a small action with a large downside if ignored.

Proactivity prevents clean-up work.

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If you want to stay ahead instead of reacting later, message me.

Morgan highlighted why proactive conversations matter. Planning with your parents before a crisis allows for clarity, alignment, and better decision making.

When families wait, decisions get made under pressure. When they plan ahead, they preserve options. Starting the conversation early creates leverage and reduces long term emotional and financial cost.

Discomfort now prevents chaos later.

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If you want guidance on how to start this conversation, message me.

Kristina explained the reality of modern content. It’s dynamic. Strategies decay. What performed consistently in the past doesn’t guarantee future results.

The solution isn’t guessing. It’s testing. When content feels stale, that’s feedback telling you to iterate. Creators who win long term are the ones who treat content like an experiment, not a fixed system.

Adaptation is the advantage.

If you want a smarter way to test and evolve your content, message me.

Daniela explained why “it’s too late” is usually a mindset problem, not a math problem. Money should be working for you, not controlling your decisions or limiting your future.

Your goals change with age, and that’s normal. The strategy adapts. What doesn’t change is the need to take ownership. Progress only happens when action replaces frustration.

No one fixes their finances by accident. They fix them by deciding to engage.

If you’re ready to take control instead of complain, message me.

Shana made a simple but powerful point. Dismissing a topic as “a scam” isn’t analysis. It’s avoidance. Advisors should be able to articulate their position clearly, even when the answer is no.

Thoughtful reasoning builds trust. Blanket statements destroy it. Asking challenging questions is how you evaluate whether your advisor is informed, curious, and capable of guiding you through uncertainty.

No explanation is still an explanation.

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If you want clarity instead of soundbites, message me.

Here’s the truth a lot of people need to hear. Money issues are rarely about the numbers. The math is easy. One plus one equals two. We can figure that out all day long.

What we can’t spreadsheet is your emotions. Your behavior. Your past experiences. Your trauma. The stuff you’ve lived through that shows up every time money enters the conversation.

If you’re listening to this and thinking, yeah, that sounds like me, you’re not broken. You’re normal. Most people are having emotional money conversations whether they admit it or not.

And if money keeps feeling heavy, I promise you this. There’s something else underneath it. That’s where the real work starts.

If this hit closer than you expected, reach out.

If you get one of those scary tax notices that makes your stomach drop, the worst move you can make is doing nothing. Ignoring it doesn’t make it go away. It guarantees the agency assumes the worst.

Most of the time, these notices aren’t monsters. They’re misunderstandings. Missing info. A mismatch that can be cleared up with a simple response. But if you don’t reply, they will always default to whatever benefits them, not you.

Get help. Ask questions. Respond early. Panic creates mistakes. Action creates options.

If you just got a notice and don’t know what to do next, reach out.

Sara broke down the core issue most nonprofits face. Founder dependency. When an organization relies entirely on repeated fundraising, it becomes fragile.

Sustainability means creating income streams that support staff and operations so the mission can compound over time. Without that, every touchpoint becomes an ask, and trust slowly erodes.

Long-term impact requires structure, not just intention.

If you want to build something that actually lasts, message me.

Jaime laid out a reality most people underestimate. Divorce affects a significant portion of marriages, and the probability increases in certain situations like second marriages.

When an outcome is this statistically common, pretending it’s unlikely is a mistake. Awareness creates better preparation, better decisions, and better outcomes for everyone involved.

Data isn’t pessimism. It’s context.

If you want to approach this with clarity instead of fear, message me.

Learning requires friction. When parents allow controlled struggle, kids develop executive functioning skills like planning, judgment, and resilience.

Removing all difficulty removes the opportunity to learn. The goal isn’t suffering. It’s growth. Deciding where to allow mistakes is uncomfortable, but it’s necessary for long-term independence.

Ease today can create weakness tomorrow.

If you want to parent with intention instead of fear, message me.

Advisors can only be as good as the questions they ask and the clarity you demand. Saving for retirement is a goal, not a strategy. Without context, it leads to generic solutions.

Effective advisors dig deeper. They ask what you want retirement to feel like, how you want to live, and what tradeoffs matter to you. That information drives better decisions than any target number alone.

Better questions lead to better outcomes.

Shana explained why the advice industry is shifting away from AUM models. Fee-for-service, coaching retainers, and advisory relationships work because they align value with outcomes, not asset size.

To charge a premium, you have to provide something clients can’t do on their own. That’s judgment, experience, and decision-making support in moments that actually matter.

Pricing power comes from differentiation. Not tradition.

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If you want to build or work with advice that’s actually worth the fee, message me.

Sara explained why sustainability is a signal of trust. Nonprofits that can support themselves are positioned to create long-term impact. They’re organized, disciplined, and built to last.

Organizations that lack structure increase risk, whether through inefficiency or mismanagement. That doesn’t mean all unsustainable nonprofits are unethical, but it does mean donors should be thoughtful about where they put their money.

Longevity is leverage. That’s what makes impact compound.

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If you want to think more strategically about giving, message me.

Sara pointed out the core issue most nonprofits face. Founder dependency. When the organization relies entirely on constant fundraising, it becomes fragile.

Sustainability means generating income to support staff and operations so the mission can compound over time. Without that, every interaction becomes an ask, and eventually goodwill erodes.

Long term impact requires systems, not just passion.

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If you want to build something that actually lasts, message me.

Most budgets fail because they only account for monthly expenses. Rachel explained that annual and seasonal costs are what actually create debt for a lot of households.

These expenses are predictable, even if they’re not frequent. When they aren’t planned for, they get financed instead. Sinking funds solve that problem by smoothing irregular costs over time and removing the need to rely on credit when they show up.

Better planning isn’t about restriction. It’s about removing surprise.

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If you want a system that actually accounts for real life, message me.

Rachel talks about how people default to present-moment decision making when they’re disconnected from their future self. Research shows that when individuals visualize themselves in the future, even something as simple as seeing an image of themselves years ahead, their financial behavior improves.

The reason is accountability. When the future version of you feels real, current actions feel consequential. You stop treating long-term outcomes as abstract and start treating them as responsibility.

Better decisions come from connection, not willpower.

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If you want to make choices that actually support your future, message me.

IRS notices are structured to create urgency. Deadlines and large numbers are meant to prompt immediate response. The risk is that fear-driven action leads to poor decisions.

Most mistakes happen when people react instead of assess. Morgan says the correct move is to slow the process down, understand what’s actually being asked, and respond intentionally.

Urgency doesn’t require panic. It requires clarity.

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If you want to respond the right way, message me.

The IRS operates on delayed information. They reconcile your return with third-party reporting years after you file. When something doesn’t match, they assume intent before error.

Morgan mentions this is why reviewing what’s being reported under your name matters. Catching discrepancies early prevents penalties, stress, and unnecessary back-and-forth later.

Proactivity isn’t optional here. It’s leverage.

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If you want to avoid problems before they start, message me.

A line of credit is different from a loan because it’s revolving. You only pay interest on what you actually use, not the full amount you’re approved for. Once you pay it down, that capital becomes available again.

For business owners with stable cash flow and decent credit, this structure makes sense. It provides flexibility without locking you into unnecessary interest or rigid repayment schedules.

Used correctly, a line of credit isn’t a risk. It’s leverage.

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Capital stacking works because it separates business credit from personal credit. You’re accessing revolving capital in the business name, often at zero percent for a fixed period, and you only pay interest on what you actually use.

Once the balance is paid down, that capital becomes available again, similar to a revolving line of credit. The advantage is speed and access. No financials, no tax returns, no bank statements required in many cases.

For startups with little or no revenue, this can be a viable way to fund early growth, as long as it’s used intentionally and paid down responsibly.

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People who wait for a problem usually pay more to fix it. The clients who do best are proactive. They’re not broken, but they’re also not satisfied with “good enough.”

Small issues left unattended compound over time. Not like investments, but like friction, stress, and misalignment. Addressing them early gives you leverage. Waiting removes it.

You don’t need urgency to justify action. You need intention.

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Everything feels uncomfortable before it becomes normal. Content is no different.

Most posts disappear in 48 hours. The fear of “what if people remember” is overblown. And if they do remember, it means the message landed.

The cost of staying quiet is higher than the cost of being uncomfortable. Reps build confidence. Avoidance builds nothing.

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@kristina.e_hall made a simple but important point. Content isn’t designed to convert every time. Its job is to build trust, test messages, and help people relate to you over time.

If something feels meaningful or relevant, post it. The downside is minimal, but the upside is learning what actually resonates. Waiting until you feel certain is what kills execution. Testing is how certainty gets created.

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Families are more dispersed than ever, and Morgan explained why that changes everything. Supporting parents from a distance adds stress, cost, and emotional weight that didn’t exist for prior generations.

Grief doesn’t pause because you have responsibilities. Ignoring it leads to burnout. Allowing space for it is not weakness. It’s how you stay functional in this season.

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The idea that “it won’t matter once I’m gone” is outdated and costly.
Morgan explained what actually happens. Families cover expenses upfront, deal with slow reimbursements, and carry financial stress while they’re grieving.

This isn’t theoretical. It’s months of waiting, paperwork, and unnecessary pressure during the hardest season of someone’s life.

Planning isn’t about you.
It’s about the people left behind.

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Daniela made a critical point:

Kids don’t need to be older to learn about money.

They already understand value.
By age three, financial habits start forming.

So include them.

Let them see decisions.

Let them learn the language of money early.
Small conversations now create strong adults later.

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If you want guidance on teaching money early, message me.

Most people don’t get help early.

They wait until they’re spiraling.
That’s when Daniela asks the only question that actually matters:
“What does money mean to you?”
The answer reveals everything.

Your values. Your fears.

Why you keep repeating the same behavior.

Why strategy hasn’t worked before.
Fix the belief and the behavior changes.

Fix the behavior and the results change.
But you can’t wait for a crisis and expect an easy turnaround.

Start earlier.

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If you want clarity before the chaos, message me.

A lot of us love to give and have a hard time receiving — Rachel included.

And when the holidays hit, that pattern gets even louder.
She talked about how sometimes the best shift is the simplest one:

Less stuff. More time together.

More presence, fewer presents. You can suggest a new tradition.

It might feel awkward. You might get pushback.

But it’s okay to ask for something different.

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If you want healthier money and holiday boundaries, reach out.

Gift-giving used to be practical and meaningful.

You made something.

You shared something useful.
Now we grab random things off a shelf and hope it feels thoughtful.
Homemade gifts save money and create connection.

They have more value because you put more of you into them.
Maybe it’s time we go back to that.

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If you want to rethink gifting without guilt, message me.

Jaime laid it out clearly: Attorneys handle law.

They do not handle money.
A QDRO exists to divide retirement assets without a tax disaster.

Taking a distribution because of bad advice can cost you thousands.
Get the right expert for the right lane.

This is where divorces go wrong financially.
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If you want your money handled correctly, message me.

Rachel pointed out that generosity isn’t just about what you give, but what you allow yourself to receive. Constantly paying, fixing, or covering costs can feel empowering, but it can also shift dynamics in ways people don’t notice.

Over-giving can remove balance from relationships and prevent real connection. Sometimes the more meaningful move is allowing others to show up, even when it feels uncomfortable.

Healthy relationships require reciprocity, not performance.

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If this made you pause, message me.

Happy holidays—now let’s talk about what nobody wants to admit:

The old “financial advisor playbook” is getting exposed in real time. Same portfolios. Same scripts. Same lazy answers when clients ask about crypto, alternatives, and what actually matters.

In this 12 Days of Giving episode, Shana Orczyk Sissel and I break down what the future of advice REALLY looks like—and why both advisors and clients need to level up immediately.

The BS We’re Fed:
“Just pick a model.” “Keep it simple.” “Crypto is a scam.” “Alternatives are only for the ultra-wealthy.”
Most of that is comfort talk… not strategy.

No BS Reality:
A young advisor started from zero and landed a $25M client by doing what most advisors refuse to do:
Ask better questions… and bring real options (private credit, direct lending, alts) that match the client’s life.

Do This Next:
If you’re a client—challenge your advisor.
If you’re an advisor—stop hiding behind fear and start building the skillset that keeps you relevant.

CHAPTERS
00:00 Markets aren’t “normal” — stop pretending
00:51 Starting from zero + the $25M wake-up call
03:14 Every advisor sells the same playbook (truth hurts)
04:40 Private credit & direct lending: alts that actually fit
06:55 Young advisors: find the edge the old guard won’t
07:33 Planning first — alts only work when you know the client
08:53 Advice 2030: fee-for-service is coming for AUM
11:13 Crypto & alts: meet clients where they actually are
13:07 Client challenge: push your advisor on hard topics
13:57 “It’s a scam” is a cop-out (ask better questions)

Nonprofits look cute on Instagram. They are not cute behind the scenes.

In this 12 Days of Giving episode, I sit down again with Sara Weldon — founder of Cash’s Crew Rescue and the woman who went from hobby farm to 100 donkeys, a full farm, and a nonprofit that costs hundreds of dollars a day just to keep breathing. We’re not talking theory. We’re talking blood, sweat, vet bills, board drama, and the emotional toll of asking for money over and over again.

We walk through:

– The wild birth story that changed everything and turned one baby donkey into a rescue movement

– Why forming a real nonprofit is way more than “filing some papers”

– How board turnover, people issues, and compliance can break founders

– What a “normal” day looks like when 100+ animals and a 501(c)(3) depend on you

– Why most nonprofits quietly fail — and how we’re trying to keep CCR sustainable instead of stuck in permanent begging mode

If you donate to nonprofits, work for one, or dream of starting your own, this episode will either wake you up, save you a lot of pain, or both.

Chapters (timestamps):

00:00 Why nonprofits aren’t cute: the real cost of “doing good”
00:58 Cash’s birth story: the donkey that changed everything
03:46 America’s dirty secret: donkey abuse and the slaughter pipeline
05:49 Selling everything and moving to Tennessee to build a rescue
08:32 How hard it really is to start a 501(c)(3) the right way
11:21 A day in the life with 100 donkeys and a full farm
17:28 Why most nonprofits fail: burnout, bad boards, and no plan
19:56 $6 a day per donkey: building a sustainable nonprofit model
21:43 The emotional toll and why Sara still says she’d do it again
23:17 Before you donate or start a nonprofit, ask these questions

Every December, people say “it just got away from us” like the holidays snuck up out of nowhere. No – they didn’t. You knew they were coming. You just didn’t have a system, and future you is cleaning up the mess… again.

In this 12 Days of Giving episode, I’m joined by money pro Rachel Duncan to break down how she built a simple, repeatable “Holiday Lessons Learned” system that has completely changed how her family moves through December. We’re talking calendar reminders, “holiday specialness” spending, sinking funds, and a credit-card strategy that actually protects you instead of wrecking you.

We also go deep on future-self psychology – why our brains forget every year, why we treat future us worse than we treat strangers, and how to start seeing “future you” as someone you’re responsible for. If you’re tired of holiday debt, shame, and chaos, this episode is the playbook. Hosted by @stoyhall and the NoBS Wealth / NoBS Collective crew.

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Chapters

00:00 December chaos and why we always “forget”
00:34 Rachel’s “Holiday Lessons Learned” calendar ritual
01:57 Turning holiday chaos into an annual playbook
05:02 Halloween, summer, and the lie of “one-off” expenses
06:27 How seasonal spending silently blows up your budget
08:12 Creating a “holiday specialness” category that tells the truth
10:26 Using a credit card like a sinking fund (without the shame)
12:34 Annual expenses, squirrels, and saving for future you
15:36 Future-self psychology and why past you matters
19:08 Fixing next year’s holidays (and planning 12 Days of Giving)

The IRS seized $116,000 of his refund… on income he never got.

In this NoBS Wealth 12 Days of Giving episode, I’m sitting down again with Morgan Q. Anderson, EA to unpack a real-world 1099-R horror story that turned into a Christmas win.

An investment fund admin walked away, issued a bogus 1099-R for $196,000, and the IRS treated it like cash in hand. Years later, my client opens a notice saying he “forgot” to report it—and the IRS quietly grabs $116K of his refund to cover the “tax.” The money never left the fund. The numbers were wrong. And nobody wanted to fix it.

Morgan walks us step-by-step through:

– How an erroneous 1099-R can wreck your tax life
– What actually happens inside the IRS when third-party reporting doesn’t match your return
– How to use the Taxpayer Bill of Rights and Taxpayer Advocate Service when the system stops listening
– And how we eventually got the refund and interest back

If you’ve ever wondered, “What happens if the IRS is wrong?” or “What if a company reports something in my name that isn’t true?” you need this episode before tax season hits.

This is not theory. This is real money, real stress, and a real game plan to protect yourself.

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Chapters

00:00 The 1099-R “Christmas Horror Story”
00:32 How a $90K Investment Turned Into a $196K Problem
02:10 When the Account Administrator Walks Away
03:15 The Bogus 1099-R That Started It All
05:02 IRS Notices, Captured Refunds, and Mounting Stress
07:18 Building the Case: Timelines, Proof, and Taxpayer Rights
09:45 Calling in the Taxpayer Advocate and Going to Battle
12:28 Winning Back $116K Plus Interest
14:35 How to Check What’s Reported Under Your SSN
16:10 What This Means for You Before Tax Season Hits

Merchant cash advances get marketed as “fast funding.”
For a lot of owners, they’re quiet financial suffocation.

In this 12 Days of Giving episode of NoBS Wealth, I’m talking with Sara Weldon of @Trufinco about a business owner doing $14M a year in revenue who was buried under $1.5M in stacked MCAs with daily withdrawals draining his cash flow. Within a few days, Sara and her team helped restructure the whole mess and free up about $45,000 a month in cash flow.

We break down:

– How good owners with great credit end up in MCA hell

– Why “fast money” products are pushed so hard (spoiler: commissions)

– The difference between MCAs, lines of credit, and term loans

– How capital stacking and 0% business credit can be used on purpose

– And what conversations you need to have before you sign anything

This isn’t anti-debt. This is anti-bad-debt. You are not stuck — but you need people around you who care more about your outcome than their commission check.

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If you’re in MCA hell, stressed about cash flow, or just feeling pressure to sign something you don’t fully understand, watch this before you do anything.

Chapters

00:00 Why this $14M debt story matters
00:42 Meet “George”: strong revenue, still broke and stressed
02:58 How merchant cash advances hook good business owners
05:37 Daily payments and the slow MCA cash flow choke
08:21 Lines of credit vs term loans: real talk for owners
10:46 Capital stacking and 0% business credit explained
13:09 Ten stacked loans and $1.5M in predatory debt
14:26 How Sara’s team freed up $45K/month in 4 days
16:03 The commission problem: why bad loans get pushed
17:02 What to do next if you’re already in MCA trouble

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You’re not broken. Your money conversations just suck.

For our 12 Days of Giving series, we’re digging into the places money really hurts—and for a lot of “normal” couples, that’s the quiet money fights happening in the middle of an otherwise decent marriage. In this episode, I sit down again with financial therapist Ashley Quamme to unpack why couples who look totally fine on paper still feel like enemies when they talk about money.

We walk through a real couple we’ll call Mark & Mary: late 30s, three kids, good jobs, and constant tension around spending, saving, and holidays. This is the setup so many of you are living right now. The income is there, the love is there, but every money talk turns into shutdown, defensiveness, or the same argument on repeat.

Then we call out the BS you’ve been sold: if you just make “enough,” the stress goes away. If you just budget harder, you’ll stop fighting. If you were more disciplined, you wouldn’t feel this anxious. That story ignores the reality that your nervous system and your history—not just your math—are in the room every time you and your partner talk about money.

Ashley breaks down the real drivers: childhood money memories, family patterns, and old fear showing up as control, avoidance, or overspending. We show you what’s actually happening financially and psychologically when a saver and a spender collide—and why “it’s just numbers” is one of the most dangerous lies couples hear.

Finally, we get practical. We walk through how to set up money dates that don’t suck, rules of engagement that keep things from blowing up, and what to do when you truly disagree on saving vs. spending. If you’re mostly fine as a couple—but money is the one topic that makes you brace for impact—this is your playbook to do something different going into next year.

Chapters:

00:00 Why normal couples still fight about money (12 Days of Giving)
01:46 Mark & Mary: a “normal” family with constant money tension
03:12 The myth: if you make enough, money fights should disappear
05:28 “It’s just numbers” and other BS advice about couples and money
07:41 No BS reality: childhood money stories running your marriage
11:59 How money dates can replace late-night money arguments
16:22 How to start your first money date without blowing up
19:03 What to do when you disagree on saving vs spending
22:17 When to call in a pro before money fights break your marriage

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You’re not just tired. You’re tired of knowing you’re good at what you do and still feeling invisible. In this 12 Days of Giving episode, I sit down with Kristina Hall (Hall Social Media) to talk about the one thing quietly choking your money, your business, and your impact: your refusal to show up. If you’ve been hiding from video, overthinking content, or convincing yourself “I’m not a creator, I just run the business,” this is your wake-up call.

We start with the real pain: business owners, doctors, and experts who are amazing in the room… but ghosts online. Revenue is leaking, opportunities are passing, and the only thing in the way is fear and ego. This is the season where everyone’s talking about “giving,” but a lot of you are hoarding the very thing that could change your family’s money story—your voice, your expertise, your actual face on camera.

Then we go straight at the BS we’ve all been sold:
“If you’re good enough, people will find you.”
“Serious professionals don’t need TikTok or Reels.”
“Posting is for influencers, not real businesses.”
It sounds classy and humble, but it’s trash. The algorithm does not care about your intention. Your kids’ future, your retirement, your ability to buy back your time—none of that improves just because you’re quietly great in the dark.

Kristina breaks down the no BS reality through the story of Dr. Lawrence Green, a dermatologist who wanted nothing to do with video… until he finally caved. She pushed him into simple drugstore skincare review videos—no fancy studio, no production team. Those clips turned into viral TikToks, a flood of comments (aka free market research), and real-world authority: TV spots, Walgreens segments, speaking opportunities, and more income potential on the table. Same doctor, same knowledge. The only difference was he finally just f*ing did it**.

We close with a straight, actionable plan: how to stop overthinking and start posting. You’ll hear exactly what to record, how to think about “bad” views, how to use hate/bots as free engagement, and how to treat content like reps—not a verdict on your worth. This is about more than views; it’s about giving your business, your family, and your future a chance to actually win. One short video at a time.

Chapters:

00:00 Why hiding from content is quietly costing you clients and money
01:06 12 Days of Giving: showing up online for your business and your family
02:32 Meet the dermatologist who refused video but wanted more patients and impact
04:11 The lie: “If you’re good enough, people will find you” (and why that kills growth)
05:47 Why real experts think they’re above content and stay broke and invisible
07:19 Just Fing Do It: how simple drugstore skincare reviews blew up his brand
09:02 From TikTok comments to TV, Walgreens, and real-world revenue
10:38 Just Fing Post It: easy video ideas for scared entrepreneurs and professionals
12:14 30-day “Just Do It Anyway” challenge to grow your reach, clients, and wealth

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https://www.blackmammoth.com/

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The IRS seized $116,000 of his refund… on income he never got.

In this NoBS Wealth 12 Days of Giving episode, I’m sitting down again with Morgan Q. Anderson, EA to unpack a real-world 1099-R horror story that turned into a Christmas win.

An investment fund admin walked away, issued a bogus 1099-R for $196,000, and the IRS treated it like cash in hand. Years later, my client opens a notice saying he “forgot” to report it—and the IRS quietly grabs $116K of his refund to cover the “tax.” The money never left the fund. The numbers were wrong. And nobody wanted to fix it.

Morgan walks us step-by-step through:

– How an erroneous 1099-R can wreck your tax life
– What actually happens inside the IRS when third-party reporting doesn’t match your return
– How to use the Taxpayer Bill of Rights and Taxpayer Advocate Service when the system stops listening
– And how we eventually got the refund and interest back

If you’ve ever wondered, “What happens if the IRS is wrong?” or “What if a company reports something in my name that isn’t true?” you need this episode before tax season hits.

This is not theory. This is real money, real stress, and a real game plan to protect yourself.

👉 Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/bNzyfPhUuWg

👉 Subscribe to my channel: https://www.youtube.com/@stoyhall

👉 Learn more about Black Mammoth (my modern family office): https://www.blackmammoth.com/

Chapters

00:00 The 1099-R “Christmas Horror Story”
00:32 How a $90K Investment Turned Into a $196K Problem
02:10 When the Account Administrator Walks Away
03:15 The Bogus 1099-R That Started It All
05:02 IRS Notices, Captured Refunds, and Mounting Stress
07:18 Building the Case: Timelines, Proof, and Taxpayer Rights
09:45 Calling in the Taxpayer Advocate and Going to Battle
12:28 Winning Back $116K Plus Interest
14:35 How to Check What’s Reported Under Your SSN
16:10 What This Means for You Before Tax Season Hits

Here’s the thing Jamie said that people don’t hear enough:

You’d get a second opinion for anything major medically.

So why wouldn’t you get one for divorce decisions that impact the next 20–30 years of your life?
These choices shape your future.

And most people make them while they’re stressed, overwhelmed, and emotionally drained.
Slow down.

Get another set of eyes.

It’s not overreacting — it’s protecting your future.

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If you want someone to review your situation, reach out.

Ashley broke it down perfectly.

Cash is easy, and that’s why most people default to it.
But she’s right … easy doesn’t always mean smart.

Sometimes cash is the right move.

Sometimes a trust or another structure protects the gift and the person receiving it.
It depends on the purpose, the timing, and whether the person is actually ready to handle it.

📺 Full video → Click Related video 🔗
If you want to give smarter, reach out.

A teen who “won’t get a job” is usually overwhelmed …. not defiant.

Ashley explained it perfectly.
What feels easy to you can feel impossible to them.

Break the process down. Make a plan.

Offer support without taking over.
That’s how you move them forward.

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If you want clarity around supporting your teen, message me.

If you don’t have anyone to work with, get over the need for a hype squad.
No one’s going to tell you it’ll work. No one’s giving you the extra push.

You give it to yourself.

If your gut says the message is good or relatable, go for it. Post it.
Not every post will convert. It’s not supposed to.
But if it feels right, you try. That’s how you move.

Full episode with @kristina.e_hall drops 12/17 on YouTube. Save it and keep going.

Crypto fan or not, you should know exactly where your advisor stands.

And if their only answer is “that’s a scam,” run.

That’s not advice. That’s a cop-out.
A real advisor can walk you through why something isn’t right for you.

Thoughtful. Clear. Future-focused.

Because the more controversial the question, the more it reveals whether your advisor actually knows what they’re doing.
And if they have no answer… that’s your answer.

New episode drops 12/23 across all platforms.

Fast wire in 24 hours. Then daily pulls you can’t dodge.

Sara explains MCAs in plain language, including how a 20k advance at a 1.4 factor becomes 28k before fees. What to read. What to avoid. What to do instead.

Episode with Sara lands 12/19 on YouTube. Hit save.

Cash works.

It’s simple.

But simple doesn’t always mean smart.
If someone will spend it immediately, cash may not be the right gift.

Sometimes structure protects the intent behind the money.
Match the gift to the goal.
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If you want clarity on gifting, message me.

Loved ones shouldn’t run your estate. Not executor. Not trustee. Not any role with power.
Why? Because grief plus access invites chaos.

Infighting. Hurt feelings. Things go missing.
If an estate stays open for months and people can get in, they will.

Protect the family and the assets. Use a neutral third party every time.

Full episode drops 12/16 on YouTube.

If you’ve got a teen or college kid who won’t get a job, keeps overdrafting their account, and seems allergic to responsibility, this episode is for you.

In this 12 Days of Giving conversation, I sit down again with financial therapist Ashley Quamme to talk about the kids who aren’t launching—and what that does to parents who are trying their best not to lose their minds over it. We walk through Mike and Michelle’s story: two daughters, same house, same values… one is a self-motivated machine, the other is stuck in neutral and swiping her debit card like money magically appears.

Ashley breaks down the difference between equal and equitable parenting, why your “lazy” kid might actually be overwhelmed, and how to help them take real steps toward work and money responsibility without turning you into their permanent project manager. We also talk about the baggage our generation carries—how we were forced to figure things out alone—and why trying to recreate that for our kids in today’s world usually backfires.

We don’t sugarcoat the frustration, shame, or resentment. But we also don’t leave you there. You’ll walk away with concrete ways to break “go get a job” into micro steps, when to help and when to back off, and how to let your kid fail safely instead of rescuing them every time.

🎧 Part of the NoBS Wealth 12 Days of Giving series – daily episodes from December 12–23 focused on real-life stories, not highlight reels.

Hosted by @stoyhall on the NoBS Wealth Podcast with guest financial therapist Ashley Quamme.

🔔 Subscribe for more no-BS conversations on money, parenting, and building real wealth.

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💼 Learn more about Black Mammoth (my modern family office):
https://www.blackmammoth.com/

Chapters:
00:00 Unmotivated Teen? Why Your Kid Won’t Launch
01:03 Two Daughters, Same Home, Opposite Money Habits
04:18 When Your Second Kid Isn’t Motivated Like Your First
07:12 Equal vs Fair Parenting: What Actually Works With Teens
10:46 How to Help an Unmotivated Teen Get Their First Job
14:21 Turning “Get a Job” Into Simple Steps Your Teen Can Handle
17:39 “No One Helped Me” – The Toxic Parenting Story We Repeat
20:15 Letting Your Teen Fail Safely Without Financial Disaster
22:38 Holiday Money Check: Your Kid Isn’t Your Report Card
24:10 Action Plan for Parents of Unmotivated Teens

Are you giving your way out of the future you say you want?

In this 12 Days of Giving episode, I’m back with therapist and NoBS Collective member Rachel Duncan to talk about the generous friend — the person who always buys the gifts, covers the tab, hits every GoFundMe… and then quietly panics about retirement and long-term security. We walk through a composite client in her late 50s: single, no kids, strong friend group, nonprofit paycheck, and a deep fear that changing how she gives means changing who she is.

We’ve been sold a holiday script that says: if you love people, you spend money on them. More gifts, bigger gestures, more stuff “to show you care.” And when generous people finally ask for help, the advice is usually garbage: “just stop spending,” “stick to a budget,” “be more disciplined.” None of that touches the real issue — that generosity became social safety, identity, and belonging a long time ago.

Rachel and I dig into what’s actually going on under the surface. We go back to adolescence, when picking up pizza or gas first became a shortcut to connection. We talk about why receiving feels so uncomfortable for over-givers, how friends actually feel when they get big, unplanned gifts, and why most people are drowning in candles and stuff but starving for real presence and time together. The real truth: your people want you more than they want another thing with a price tag attached.

Then we get practical. We walk through what it looks like to shift your own 12 Days of Giving without blowing up your relationships: having one honest conversation with your friend group or family, trying homemade or creative gifts, choosing experience-based gifts instead of more clutter, and practicing saying, “My presence is my gift this year.” You don’t have to stop being generous — you have to redefine how generosity shows up so your future isn’t the collateral damage.

If you’re the generous one in your circle, this is your permission slip to give differently and still be fully you.

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Chapters:

00:00 12 Days of Giving: the generous friend who can’t retire
03:04 Why holiday giving quietly turns into money anxiety
06:08 The BS advice: “just stop spending on holiday gifts”
08:32 How teenage money habits fuel adult over-giving
10:57 Presence vs presents: what people actually want from you
11:55 Holiday giving on a budget: homemade and creative gifts
14:20 Why most of us want less stuff and more real connection
15:23 How to reset your 12 Days of Giving without losing friends
16:22 What to do next: new traditions for chronically generous people

Divorce is hard enough. A bad divorce settlement mistake that quietly costs you $300K–$400K and maybe your house on top of it? That’s the kind of thing that can wreck the next 20–30 years of your life. In this 12 Days of Giving episode, @stoyhall sits down with Jamie Lima, CFP®, CDFA®, to walk through a real case where a woman was days away from signing a deal that would have blown up her finances and her stability as a mom of a special needs child. One second opinion changed everything.

We start with Mary’s story: primary breadwinner, caring for her daughter, trying desperately to keep the home that anchors their entire world while pushing through an exhausting divorce. On paper, the divorce settlement looked “fair” — a split of the pension, the 401(k), the house. Her divorce attorney was confident. Everyone told her this is just what divorce looks like. But when Jamie dug into the pension valuation and the QDRO details, the math didn’t match the story at all.

That’s the BS most people are fed: “Just split everything 50/50 and move on.” “The pension value on the form is the pension value.” “We’ll just cash out some of the 401(k) and divide it.” “Your divorce attorney will handle the money.” This is how divorce financial planning gets completely ignored. Nobody explains how pensions are actually valued, how QDROs really work, or how bad advice can trigger a massive, unnecessary tax hit you never recover from.

The No BS reality is ugly but simple: divorce attorneys are experts in law, not pensions, actuarial tables, or tax strategy. In Mary’s case, once Jamie re-ran the pension using the right assumptions and looked at how the QDRO was structured, they uncovered a divorce pension mistake worth hundreds of thousands of dollars. The original plan would have forced her into selling the house and paying taxes she didn’t need to pay. The corrected plan allowed her to keep the home, protect more of her retirement, and build a life that actually worked for her and her daughter.

If divorce is anywhere near your life right now — yours, a friend’s, a client’s — you need to treat the settlement like a major medical diagnosis. Don’t sign anything you don’t fully understand. Get a second opinion specifically on the money: pensions, 401(k)s, QDROs, and the house. Bring in a financial planner or CDFA who actually lives in this world. Watch this episode, take notes, and then go double-check your own situation before you lock in a decision you’ll be stuck with for decades.

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https://www.blackmammoth.com/

This episode is part of our 12 Days of Giving series dropping December 12–23, where every conversation is built to protect your money, your mind, and your future — not just entertain you for half an hour.

Chapters:

00:00 Divorce settlement mistake that almost cost her $400K
00:24 Real story: special needs child, house, and divorce stress
01:31 Why most people trust their divorce attorney with the money
03:06 The BS: “50/50 split” and pension values that lie
04:47 QDRO tax trap and bad 401(k) divorce advice in divorce
06:22 No BS: how to really value a pension in your divorce
08:11 Divorce attorney vs financial planner: who actually protects you
09:59 How a divorce clarity review saved her house and future
11:28 What to do before you sign your divorce settlement papers
12:56 Step-by-step plan to avoid your own divorce money mistake

Most Americans don’t have a will.

That doesn’t make you irresponsible… it makes you human.
Shaming people for not being “ready” doesn’t help.

Sometimes it’s actually worse to force this before you understand what you’re doing.
A will is just one piece of the puzzle anyway.

Your legacy is bigger than a document.

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If you want to get clear on where to start, reach out.

Estate planning is the one area you can’t really DIY.

There’s no real self-help for it.

No step-by-step YouTube that covers your actual situation.
Most people don’t even realize they need help until they try doing it themselves and hit a wall — emotionally, mentally, or financially.
Budgeting, investing, learning the basics?

Sure, do it on your own.
But when it comes to protecting what you’ve built, you need a pro.

Your brain will fight you on this if you try to go solo.
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If you want real guidance instead of guessing, reach out.

You don’t climb out of 10k of debt overnight. And as Daniella said, you climb out with a plan that actually feels doable.

We walked through her client’s budget together ….the current expenses and the future expenses. The bills, the goals, the calm. And my favorite part of her story? She brought the kids in. Turned money into a simple little game they could win. Save. Spend. Choose. They learned what a dollar can do and what it can’t.

That’s the real cheat code. When a family learns together, they grow together. And the anxiety finally gets quieter.

This episode is part of our ‘12 Days of Giving Series.’

Full episode drops on all major platforms 12/15. This one you won’t want to miss.

Cash is the easiest way to give and most people default to it without thinking.

But the purpose matters.

If someone is going to burn through it instantly, cash may not be the right move.
Sometimes a trust or a different structure is better.

Sometimes cash really is king.

The point is to match the gift to the goal, not just hand over money and hope it lands well.
🎥 Full video → Click Related video 🔗

If you want guidance on giving wisely, reach out.

The best gift this season isn’t cash or more stuff. It’s what Rachel said so perfectly… it’s you actually showing up.

She talked about how so many people start the holidays stressing over homemade gifts, only to realize something way simpler. Presence beats presents. Pull up. Send the text. Leave the voice note. Call your aunt. Sit with your people. You can connect without draining your bank account or your joy.

And she’s right. When you strip the pressure away, that’s when it clicks. Less gifting and more showing up for the people we love. That’s a kind of wealth, too.

This episode is part of our ‘12 Days of Giving Series.’

Full episode “Your Presence Is Enough: Rethinking Holiday Gifts and Money” drops on all major platforms 12/14. This one hits.

In this episode, Jaime gets real about what it feels like to sit with a financial planner in the middle of a divorce. It’s heavy. The unknowns pile up. You’re not sure what they’ll say, if your argument holds up, or how the settlement is going to change everything.

That kind of uncertainty fuels real anxiety, and we don’t pretend it doesn’t. We talk about it, we organize it, and we turn it into a plan you can live with.

This episode is a part of our ‘ 12 Days of Giving Series. ’

Full episode: “The $400K Divorce Mistake We Caught Just in Time” lands on all major platforms 12/13. Don’t miss this one.

Parents. Equal ain’t always fair, and that’s not a moral failure.

Ashley talks about how each kid carries a different story. One fights anxiety. One coasts on talent. One needs cash for tutoring, the other needs time and a ride to practice. Matching their needs is not favoritism. It’s stewardship. You’re resourcing humans, not running a coupon code.

In the episode, we break the “equal = fair” trap, show how to set boundaries, and give you scripts for hard conversations so every kid feels seen and supported.

This episode is a part of our ‘ 12 Days of Giving Series. ’

Watch the full episode: “Your “Lazy” Teen Isn’t Broken: Money, Motivation & Reality” drops on all major platforms 12/12. Parents, you don’t want to miss this.

Here’s the real. Your money story was baked before third grade.
You learned it from the arguments at the kitchen table. The quiet. The overdraft panic. The payday splurge. The secrets nobody named.

If you never unpack that, grown you keeps reacting like kid you. Same triggers. Same fights. Same shame.

You can rewrite the script. Start by telling the truth about what you saw. Call the pattern. Choose one habit to change this week and prove the old story wrong.

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Silence protects shame. Honesty breaks it.

You’re not supposed to do money alone. Find your crew, speak the truth, and let the real change start working.

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Shame attacks who you are.

Guilt calls out what you did.
Shame keeps you stuck.

Guilt gives you a path forward.
Swap the word. Change the behavior.

It’s that simple.

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If you want clarity instead of shame, message me.

Most people don’t have a year-end giving strategy. They have a last-minute panic.

Every December, people rush donations, hand out cash to family, and then dump the mess on their CPA with, “Can you make this look good?” Meanwhile, their logins, accounts, and actual wishes are trapped in their head… until it’s too late.

In this NoBS Wealth episode, I sit back down with estate planning attorney Griffin Bridgers to get brutally honest about year-end giving, donor-advised funds, gift tax rules, and his “Death Manual” concept — a real-life playbook for your family when you’re not here. @stoyhall

We get into:

Why waiting until the last week of December is a timing disaster

When the IRS says your gift actually counts (check, wire, online portal, all of it)

How the $19k annual exclusion and the multi-million dollar lifetime exemption really work

Cash vs. appreciated stock vs. “messy” assets like businesses or real estate

Family foundations vs. donor-advised funds (DAFs) – control, cost, and BS to avoid

The coming 2025–2026 tax shifts that could punish “I’ll do it next year”

Why your family needs more than a will – they need your logins, instructions, and a roadmap

How Griffin’s Inherit project and Death Manual give a real structure to that

If you care about the people who will have to clean up after you, this isn’t optional anymore.

⏱️ Chapters

⏱️ Chapters

00:00 Hook & Setup: Why year-end giving gets messy fast
00:49 What this episode will actually do for your money
03:19 The BS We’re Fed: “Just give by 12/31 and you’re fine”
07:14 Cash is king? The truth about cash vs stock gifts
11:47 “Philanthropy is only for the wealthy” & foundations vs DAFs
15:05 No BS Reality: Start with what you actually want to leave
20:18 Why documents alone won’t save your family (the shame game)
24:26 The Death Manual & Griffin’s Inherit Substack
29:03 Do This Next: Start with one bite and one password
31:42 Your giving day, DAFs as a tool, and final challenge

🔗 Watch & Subscribe

📺 Watch this episode:
https://youtu.be/q85Ub9rxVNk

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👤 Connect with Griffin Bridgers

📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRaGK2J72zXDvLLcy2aPl-w

💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/griffinbridgers/

📰 Inherit – Griffin’s Substack on practical estate planning & Death Manuals:
https://inheritcy.substack.com/

⚠️ Quick Reminder

This episode is for educational purposes only. It’s not tax, legal, or investment advice. Before gifting assets, setting up DAFs, or building out your own Death Manual strategy, talk with a qualified CPA and estate planning attorney who knows your situation.

People assume saying yes means you’re agreeable.
Most of the time, it means you’re fawning ….a survival strategy from childhood.

It’s not wrong. It kept you safe.
But it also keeps you stuck if you don’t evolve it.

Boundaries don’t have to be aggressive.
They can sound like:
“Not right now.”
“I need a day.”
“That doesn’t work for me.”

You don’t need to cut people out.
You just need to stop abandoning yourself.

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“Someday” isn’t a plan.
Life gets loud. Then nothing gets done.

Estate planning is love in paperwork form.
You built something. Protect it. Name who gets what. Name who makes decisions if you can’t. Keep courts and chaos out of your family’s business.

Start small.
Write a will. Update beneficiaries. Set powers of attorney. Add healthcare directives. Have the conversation at the kitchen table. Done beats perfect.

Waiting feels easier. It isn’t.
Handle it now so your people don’t have to clean it up later.

📺 Full video with @griffinbridgers → Click Related video 🔗

Most folks write a will once and never look at it again. That’s how families end up scrambling.

Lawyers aren’t your long-term storage.
If you moved or your firm shut down, your will might have vanished.
Even courts are stepping back from holding originals.

A will is worthless if nobody can find it when it matters.
Check it. Update it. Secure it. Tell your people where it is.

📺 Full video with @griffinbridgers → Click Related video 🔗

You think you’re covered because your bank has your beneficiaries?
You’re not.

Banks mess up. People don’t update paperwork. And whatever the bank has on file doesn’t cover everything you own.

Beneficiaries on your accounts are fine. They don’t replace an estate plan.
That false security can cost your family time, money, and peace.

Double-check what’s actually in place.
Stop assuming the system has your back.

📺 Full video with @griffinbridgers → Click Related video 🔗

Think you’re covered because you wrote a will. You might not be.

People spend hours and a stack of money getting a will drafted. Then they fumble the last yard. No witnesses. No notary. That “estate plan” is now a decoration in your junk drawer.

If that’s you, breathe. Most folks don’t know the rules. But the court won’t care. When it’s time to use that will, it’s too late to fix the paperwork. Your family gets delay, drama, and legal bills.

Handle it now. Get it signed right. Get witnesses. Get it notarized if your state requires it. Store it where someone can actually find it. Protect your people.

📺 Full video with @griffinbridgers → Click Related video 🔗

Everyone says “debt is bad.”

No … bad debt is bad.

Buying a home? Investing in an asset? Building something that grows in value? That’s strategy, not stupidity.

The problem is, we’ve let fear run the conversation.

We hear “debt” and freeze. We stop thinking.

But not all debt drags you down. Some of it builds you up.

Stop letting the headlines make you scared of the same tools the wealthy use every day.

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Most people treat estate planning like a dentist appointment—delay it until it hurts. This episode fixes that. We break down wills, trusts, beneficiaries, and the buy-sell traps that blow up small businesses at the worst possible time.

Featuring: @griffinbridgers (recovering attorney; Colorado-based), and me, @stoyhall

Chapters
00:00 Why estate planning gets ignored (and why that’s dangerous)
02:02 Holidays + tax-change urgency vs. real planning
03:05 Core docs: will, revocable trust, POAs, living will—then review
05:00 Myth #1: “My old will is fine”—execution errors kill plans
06:45 Myth #2: “Bank beneficiaries = full plan” (nope)
08:10 “My attorney has it” and other access nightmares
10:45 “We’ll do the buy-sell later” and why that’s risky
12:00 Buy-sell triggers, behavior, valuation and liquidity
17:00 Biggest failures: family dynamics, info in your head, no playbook
21:00 “Death is never easy—but you can make it easier.”
23:00 Who vs. How: re-evaluate executors, trustees, agents yearly
27:00 Business owners: pull your operating/partnership agreement annually

Guest Socials:
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRaGK2J72zXDvLLcy2aPl-w

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/griffinbridgers/

Follow NoBS Wealth:
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Black Mammoth: https://www.blackmammoth.com

Disclaimer: General education only; not legal or tax advice. Consult your own attorney/CPA.

“Just cut them off.”

That’s the lazy version of growth advice.
You don’t need to erase your family to evolve. You just need to stop copying their patterns.

Financial independence doesn’t mean emotional detachment.

It means knowing what shaped you, then choosing a different path.

You can’t build new results with old habits.

So break the cycle. Don’t break the relationship.

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Money’s still a taboo topic in most families.

People think staying quiet keeps the peace, but it keeps everyone broke.

Our parents didn’t know better. We can.

Start the conversation.

Ask questions.

Talk about debt, savings, mistakes — all of it. Because silence is how the cycle stays alive.

And one conversation can change your whole family’s future.

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Money means something different to everyone in your house.

There’s the saver, the spender, and the one who just avoids it altogether.

I get it. I grew up around that too.

When everyone handles money differently, it’s hard to make any real progress.

You’re not just managing your finances ….you’re unlearning habits that got passed down.

And that’s heavy.
But awareness is where it starts.

Once you understand how you view money, you can finally change how you move with it.

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Most people hear “no” and fold.

Top performers hear “no” and start collecting data.
Every no tells you something.

No to your offer? Adjust the offer.

No to you? Find the audience where it’s a yes.
Rejection only wins if you stop listening.

🎥 Full episode with @DrReneeBaker → Click Related video 🔗

Gratitude won’t raise your salary. It won’t beat inflation. It won’t fix the pay gap.
You can be thankful for where you are and still demand more.

The two aren’t opposites ….they’re both required.

Every time you negotiate, every time you speak up, you open doors for more people than just you.

But staying quiet keeps everyone stuck.

Gratitude without advocacy isn’t humility. It’s playing small.

🎥 Full episode with @DrReneeBaker → Click Related video 🔗

First-Gen Money vs Family Pressure: Holiday Survival

If you grew up first-gen or in a multi-gen Hispanic household, you know the holidays can wreck your wallet and your peace. Today I’m joined by Daniela Molina to talk culture, facts, boundaries, and how to stop buying guilt with a credit card. Tagging the host: @stoyhall

Watch next: https://youtu.be/IU23V53K2fA

Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@nobswealth

Black Mammoth: https://www.blackmammoth.com

Chapters
01:35 First-gen x holidays: where money pressure starts
03:00 Multi-gen households and clashing money scripts
05:30 How to start the money talk without shaming elders
08:40 “Cut your family off to get ahead?” Reality check
10:50 Is debt always bad? What the facts actually say
12:30 From facts to hot takes: how to vet media smartly
18:20 Boundaries when family asks you for money
24:05 Media job vs personal life: protecting your peace
26:40 Bilingual content and reaching Spanish speakers
30:45 Holiday plan: budgets, gifts, lists that save you

Connect with Daniela
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dailydaniela/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danimoolina/

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About this episode
We get blunt about culture, family expectations, and media myths so you can protect your cash and your relationships this holiday season.

You can’t stay quiet and expect things to change.

You can’t keep your head down and hope someone notices your worth.
If you don’t speak up, you get left behind. Period.
Stop waiting for the perfect moment to advocate for yourself.

Stop thinking your company will “just see” your effort.

They won’t… Not because they don’t care, but because they’re focused on their own shit.

You are the CEO of you. So act like it.

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Eighty-three cents for every dollar. Same work. Hard work and busting their a**.

Then you’ve got inflation …. gas, food, housing, childcare ….all climbing.

People wonder why everyone’s burnt out. This is why.
You can’t outwork a system that’s stacked.

Until that changes, the gap just keeps growing.

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AI doesn’t replace strategy. It just exposes who’s too lazy to execute.

You can have the most genius AI-generated plan in the world, but if you’re not doing the work, it’s useless.

AI can help you build strategy. It can’t make you show up.

The difference between people who win with AI and people who waste it? One takes action. The other just plays pretend.

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Year-end isn’t reflection season—it’s leverage season. Budgets, bonuses, titles, equity, retention risk—decisions about you are getting made now. Silence doesn’t pay. In this episode, Dr. Renee Baker and I break the fear cycle and show you how to negotiate your raise, title, and equity like a pro.

Chapters
00:00 Leverage season: why Q4 decisions matter
01:05 How companies really decide comp at year-end
05:25 Speak up: fear, layoffs, and why silence doesn’t pay
08:10 Myth: “Be grateful and wait your turn”
12:05 Myth: “Raises aren’t possible this year”
15:10 Inflation & “cheaper to keep ’em” (your retention leverage)
18:40 Politics vs performance: read the breadcrumbs
23:20 Quantify outcomes, not tasks—how to show value
28:45 Job Titles = access, pay bands, and mobility
32:55 If they say no: timelines, criteria, and next moves

Links
▶️ Full episode: https://youtu.be/sN9-MechYpM

🔔 Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/@nobswealth

👤 Tag: @stoyhall
🌐 Black Mammoth: https://www.blackmammoth.com

Guest
Dr. Renee Baker
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/itsreneebaker/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsreneebaker

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrReneeBaker

About NoBS Wealth
We educate first-gen builders and business owners with blunt, real-world money conversations. No fluff. No sidesteps. Just truth that moves you.

You can’t win on social if you’re only showing up where it’s comfortable.

Everyone says “you need to be on every platform,” but nobody builds the system to make it work. That’s the problem.

Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn each one speaks a different language. You can’t post the same thing everywhere and expect results.

Start where your ideal clients hang out. Then expand. Because your clients’ friends, colleagues, and referrals are on other platforms too and that’s where your growth really happens.

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Consistency beats content dumps every time.

Posting more doesn’t make you relevant. Being consistent does.

Everyone thinks volume is the key. It’s not. Authority and discipline are.

You don’t need to post 10 times a day. You need to show up with intention, stay on message, and give real value every single time.

Consistency builds trust. Trust builds momentum. Momentum builds everything else.

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Q4 has everyone acting like they’re in a sprint to save the year.

The truth? It’s just another three months. The only reason it feels heavier is because we put unrealistic pressure on ourselves to reinvent everything before January hits.

You don’t need a new year to get your shit together. You need consistency, not panic.
Stop setting fire to your peace just because the calendar’s ending. The holidays are already stressful enough.

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Let’s be real: Thanksgiving can turn into a money minefield. Old roles, hot buttons, passive-aggressive comments. In this episode, financial therapist Rachel Duncan and I show you how to stop the shame spiral, set real boundaries, and keep your peace—without pretending nothing happened.

Chapters
00:00 Why money blows up at the holidays
01:20 Family triggers: Why you “feel 14 again” at home
02:45 Money beliefs form by age eight (and what to do now)
06:30 Avoid or address? How to redirect without gaslighting
11:00 People-pleasing, “Set Boundaries, Find Peace,” and scripts that work
15:10 How to feel a boundary crossing in real time
19:40 Swap shame for guilt to make change possible
23:15 Connection kills shame: build your money “superhero team”
26:10 The daily “pleasure practice” that beats any budget
29:05 Budget = boundary (how to make it feel normal)

Guest
Rachel Duncan — Financial Therapist (and art therapist), founder of @themoneyhealingclub
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelduncanfinancialtherapist/

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moneyhealingclub

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moneyhealingclub/

Connect
@stoyhall
NoBS Wealth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@nobswealth

Black Mammoth: https://www.blackmammoth.com

Your clients don’t need a know-it-all. They need someone who isn’t afraid to say, “I don’t know yet, but I’ll find out.” Fear is just lack of information. The more you learn, the less it controls you.

I learned that the hard way when I was sick in the hospital. Someone told me, “Fear is what happens when you don’t understand something yet.” They were right.

Your job isn’t to fake confidence. It’s to stay curious, dig deep, and actually understand the sh*t your clients are scared of. That’s how you earn trust ….not by acting perfect, but by showing you’re willing to do the work.

I don’t care how good an investment looks on paper. I want to know the downside. What’s the risk? How bad could it get? If you only plan for the good days, the bad ones will wreck you.

Smart investing isn’t about hope. It’s about being ready when sh*t hits the fan.

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Fear is just a lack of information. The more you know, the less room there is for fear to control you. Most people stay scared because they’re too afraid to admit they don’t know sh*t. But that’s where the growth is.

Ask the damn questions. Dig for answers. Educate yourself.

That’s what your clients pay you for… to make sense of the complicated stuff they can’t do alone.

Be the advisor who’s curious as hell, not the one hiding behind ego. Knowledge kills fear every time. 🖤

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Every headline is designed to trigger you. Don’t take the bait.

You can feel it. You can get pissed, scared, or anxious… that’s normal. But reacting instantly is how people wreck their peace, their money, and their decisions.

Pause. Pray. Process.

Or if faith isn’t your thing …pause and process.

The smartest people don’t react to chaos. They study it, breathe through it, and move with intention.

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ALTS WITHOUT THE LIE: INCOME, LIQUIDITY, AND REAL RISK
Most people chase yield. Pros budget liquidity. If you want real results with alternatives, you need both. I’m sitting with Shana Orczyk Sissel@BanrionCapital to break down private credit, interval funds, leverage, and the due-diligence path that actually protects investors. No hype. No hand-holding. We get straight to what works and what blows up.

WHO THIS IS FOR
• Advisors who want an edge beyond product access
• Business owners and high earners building durable income
• Investors who need a liquidity plan, not just a yield story

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN
• Why access to alts exploded and how to avoid the tourist traps
• Income vs. liquidity: how to price the tradeoff before you buy
• Interval funds in the real world: gates, NAV, and expectations
• Private credit basics: underwriting, structure, and sources of yield
• Leverage is not one thing: spread capture vs. synthetic exposure
• A clean due-diligence checklist anyone can run
• Suitability, taxes, and how structure drives outcomes
• A simple, repeatable framework to add alts without breaking the plan

CHAPTERS
00:00 “Chasing yield vs. budgeting liquidity”
01:10 Why alts are everywhere now: access, regs, and wrappers
04:00 Private credit’s rise and the true cost of higher income
07:05 Interval funds 101: mechanics, gates, and behavior
11:10 Complexity ≠ Risk: how to separate stories from structure
16:00 Leverage explained: the good, the dumb, and the dangerous
20:45 Incentives and conflicts: who gets paid and for what
24:30 Due diligence that matters: valuation, admin, audit, data
31:00 Who alts are for (and who they’re not)
35:10 A practical checklist for integrating alts into a plan
40:30 Final takeaways: planning beats performance-chasing

THE CHECKLIST (COPY/PASTE THIS)

– Set a liquidity budget before picking products
– Map income needs and re-investment risk to structure
– Follow incentives: platform, manager, and distribution economics
– Verify valuation, admin, and audit are independent and documented
– Define position sizing and rebalancing rules up front
– Track tax impact and the pace of cash flows, not just stated yield

GUEST
Shana Orczyk Sissel, CEO & Founder, Banríon Capital Management (@BanrionCapital)
Website: https://www.banrioncapital.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shsissel/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/finance_queen2020/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@finance_queen2020
Banríon IG: https://www.instagram.com/banrioncapital/
Banríon YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BanrionCapital

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Cutting everything and hoarding cash isn’t strategy. It’s panic.

Stashing money under your mattress might make you feel safe, but it’s not getting you anywhere. That’s not discipline …that’s fear disguised as control.

You don’t win by reacting. You win by planning.

You don’t need to go all in or all out. You need a proactive game plan that keeps you steady when everyone else is losing their mind.

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Lifestyle creep isn’t the enemy. The wrong kind is.

I’m all for leveling up your life …nicer things, better experiences, more comfort. You should invest in yourself and your quality of life.

The problem is when it stops being intentional and starts being performative. When you’re spending to prove something instead of improve something.

That’s the kind of lifestyle creep that drains your wallet and your self-worth.

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Money feels heavy because it’s never just money.

We trade our time, energy, and sanity for it. It decides how we live, how long we rest, and who we get to spend our time with.

It’s not about greed. It’s about survival.
Money isn’t just paper or numbers on a screen. It’s a reflection of how much of yourself you’ve had to give up to get it.

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Going through a divorce? Start acting like the CEO of your life.

Two people signed a contract that no longer works. Now you’re dissolving it. That’s business.

Lead with emotion and you’ll bleed money. Lead with strategy and you’ll move on faster.

Your lawyer isn’t your therapist. Stop writing novels, stop over explaining, and start thinking like a boss.

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“Just don’t get married” isn’t the solution.

That mindset comes from fear, not logic. Marriage itself isn’t the problem — it’s the lack of preparation, awareness, and communication that wrecks people.

Skipping marriage doesn’t protect you from pain. It just keeps you from building something real.

And if you do get married, you shouldn’t live terrified of paying alimony for the rest of your life. The goal isn’t to avoid commitment. It’s to go into it smart, informed, and clear on what’s fair for both sides.

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Nobody really prepares for what life looks like after the divorce.

Everyone talks about the chaos of getting divorced …the heartbreak, the family tension, the “dropping the D-word” moment. But no one tells you how disorienting it is when the dust settles.

You’re in survival mode. You’re just trying to get through the storm. But when you don’t stop to think about the life you actually want on the other side, you end up making choices that box you in later.

Five years from now, do you want peace or just less chaos? Do you want your kids thriving or just surviving with you? Those decisions start right now, even when it hurts to think that far ahead.

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Why do we treat insurance like it’s optional?

Like it’s only something to think about after something bad happens?

We walk around believing we’ll always go up — that risk, death, or disability couldn’t possibly apply to us.

We don’t plan for the worst because we’re too busy pretending we’re “temporarily embarrassed millionaires.” But hope is not a plan.

Insurance isn’t about fear. It’s about protecting the version of you that still has bills to pay when life flips upside down.

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